Ways of Showing Comportment

What is comportment?

Comportment means behaving in a proper manner. There is a way of behaving in a particular society that is considered good / proper. Conducting oneself according to this proper way is known as comportment, which differs from courtesy. Courtesy means polite behaviour.

Ways in which one can show comportment in school

(i) Doing one's school chores diligently and faithfully

(ii) Disposing of litter in a proper way (in the rubbish bin)

(iii) Attending morning assembly and all other school gatherings regularly and punctually.

(iv) Greeting and respecting teachers and school mates

(v) Raising up one's hand and waiting to be called before speaking in class

(vi) Asking permission before leaving the classroom

(vii) Paying attention during lessons

(viii) Submitting class and home assignments on time

(ix) Ensuring that one's surroundings is always kept clean

(x) Putting one's hands behind him/ her when speaking with a teacher

(xi) Using polite language, such as "please", "thank you" and "sorry" when speaking to others

(xii) Dressing modestly and decently

(xiii) Saying "no" to bad friends who would want to influence one to commit bad deeds.

(xiv) Exercising self-control over one's evil desires or bad temper

(xv) Assisting / helping friends whenever they need help.

(xvi) Obeying good instructions from teachers and seniors

(xvii) Not standing on tables and chairs except by permission

(xviii) Not littering the classroom / school compound

(xix) Not making noise in class / on the school compound

(xx) Not fighting in class / on the school compound

(xxi) Not using abusive language

Importance of Comportment

Comportment has the following benefits:

Comportment can create an atmosphere of good will towards a person.

Comportment can make a person likeable, just because that person is well behaved and mannered.

Comportment also has the potential to create opportunities for a person.

A comported person is held in high esteem in society.

Types of Comportment

Comportment can be grouped into different types, depending on the area or domain where comportment is needed.

These are some types of comportment:

Environment-centred comportment: this type of comportment involves keeping the environment clean. For example, disposal of rubbish into rubbish bins.

Social comportment: This type of comportment has to do with relating with other human beings in a courteous manner. An example of social comportment is using polite language such as "Please", and "Thank you".

Family-centred comportment: This type of comportment is centred on the family, but the influence of this comportment type is not just limited to the family but affects the larger society. For example, a child's home training on respect for elders will influence how that child relates to his or her elders in the society.

Moral Comportment: This type of comportment deals with the morality of a person. For instance, dressing decently, particularly important for girls, and saying "No" to bad friends who would want to influence one to commit bad deeds.